BRANCHES OVER THE WALL
The Akert Family
in
America
by
Kenneth R. Allen
((c) KRA 1995)
Excerpts from the English Language Edition of
The Chronicles of the Akert Family of Aussersihl-Zurich
By Ernst Akert and Kenneth R. Allen
Translation edited by Kenneth R. Allen
Hans Heinrich Akert
1836-1907
by
Kenneth R. Allen
Hans Heinrich Akert (1836-1907) was the twelfth
child of Hans Konrad Akert and Anna Blümle. Hans had thirteen siblings,
eleven of whom lived to maturity. While little was known of his early life
in Switzerland, a few things are known of his physical characteristics.
He was between 5'4" and 5'5" tall and weighed 122 lbs. His eyes were hazel,
and his hair was brown. Over his right eye and cheek he bore a deep scar.
(All known photographs of him show only a left profile.) According to the
style of the day he wore a full beard.
By occupation he was a musician. He was skilled
on several musical instruments especially the tuba and the bass violin.
When not working as a musician, he found work as a carpenter or as a general
laborer, and he worked at the smelter in Murray, Utah.
On 6 June 1864 Hans married 18-year old Lina
Näf of Glattfelden by the Reverend Schoch in the Protestant Church
in Schlieren, Switzerland. They had two children, Elisabeth and Hans.
In Zürich, Hans worked as a liveryman
[Fuhrhalter]. After disappointments in this business and the accidental
death of their first child Elisabeth in a bathing accident, John and Lina
Akert emigrated to America in 1865, where they first settled in Evansville,
Indiana. On 16 March 1870, in St. Louis, Missouri, Hans (aka John Henry
Akert, Sr.) enlisted for a five-year tour of duty in the United States
Cavalry. At that time the U.S. Government was engaged in an extended campaign
to gain control of the territories between California and Missouri, and
the transcontinental railroad had been completed the previous year.
John was first assigned to Troop G of the
Seventh Regiment, but within a month he was transferred to the Regimental
Band of the Seventh Cavalry. He first served under General Sturgis
at Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas. In 1873, not long after his father had joined
up with the 7th Cavalry in Louisville, Kentucky, Brigadier General George
Armstrong Custer, a Civil War hero and already well-known soldier and potential
candidate for the U.S. Presidency, received orders from Washington to pull
up stakes and transfer his entire regiment to Fort Abraham Lincoln in the
northern part of Dakota, a few miles south of Bismarck, on the banks of
the Missouri River. At that time Bismarck, which was to become the capital
of North Dakota, was nothing more than a shanty town on the Indian frontier.
John's family traveled with him to Fort Lincoln.
Lina Akert found favor with General Custer
and washed and ironed Custer's shirts. John as well as the other soldiers
disliked Custer's strict and sometimes cruel ways, and he did not always
find favor with Custer. He once felt the wrath of Custer's temper when
his horse stepped in a hole and stumbled, knocking his tuba to the ground
and denting it. For punishment, he was strung up to a tree and hung from
his toes.
General Custer was intensely disliked by the
Indians. John was with Custer when Sitting Bull shouted across a river
to Custer that he would "cut his heart out" before a year had passed.
Happily, John's enlistment ended 16 March
1875 at Fort Lincoln. He returned to Louisville and civilian life in April
1875 with his wife and son. For a while, the family lived in Elizabethtown.
Finding no satisfactory work, John took his family back to Louisville,
Kentucky. That same year word came that on 25 June 1876, General Custer,
his younger brother and 263 other men had died in battle on the Little
Big Horn River in Montana.
Lina, evidently dissatisfied with the living
conditions divorced John on 25 August 1876. In June 1877, Lina left John
and their child in Louisville, traveling first to Buffalo, New York. In
August 1877, she called for John, Jr., to join her and to return to Switzerland.
Lina left John, Jr. in Switzerland and returned to New York, so arrangements
were made for twelve-year-old John, Jr. to stay with his aunt Dorothea
Akert Peter.
In the meantime, John, Sr. reenlisted in the
U.S. Army (at New York City 4 November 1878), this time joining the Fourteenth
U.S. Infantry. Within a month of this enlistment, John Sr. was once again
in the Regimental Band, and the Fourteenth Infantry was sent to the frontier
of Wyoming Territory, where it remained until 1883. In early 1883, the
regiment, under the command of Col. J.C. Smith, was transferred to Fort
Douglas just east of Salt Lake City, Utah Territory, so John sent for his
son John.
There among the Swiss immigrants who had joined
the Mormons, he found fellowship, and on 6 September 1883 he was baptized
a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Two months
later John was honorably discharged from the army at Fort Sidney (or Sanders),
Nebraska. John Henry became an elder and local lay leader in the Church.
In Salt Lake John met twenty-three year-old Caroline Stadler Steiner Kunz
who had been born in Escholzmatt, Luzern Canton, in the Emmenthal (Emment
Valley) of Switzerland. They were married 3 April 1884 in a Mormon Church
ceremony in the Endowment House in Salt Lake City.
Caroline's mother Katherine Zemp Kunz,
who was a year younger than John, lived with the family, but was married
in 1884 to John Kunz, a prominent elderly Swiss gentleman, in a plural
marriage church sealing in Logan, Utah, although during periods of her
daughter's illnesses and after the abolition of plural marriage in Utah
territory. In 1892, Caroline was sealed as a daughter in a church adoption
in Logan, Utah to John Kunz and Katherine Zemp (sic. Cemp in the Church
records).
Caroline bore John eleven children between
1885 and 1898, five of whom died in infancy, likely from poor sanitation
conditions such as milk-borne diseases called "summer complaint." They
were Adam Isaac, Benjamin, Jared, Esther and Olga Ruth. The remaining
six children, Eva, Sarah ("Helen"), Ruben Ephraim ("Ted"), Hulda Caroline
("Tullie"), Ethel Olga and Evelyn Isa, all lived long and rewarding lives
and married. The women raised families in the Salt Lake City area, while
Ted settled in Los Angeles, California, married, but had no children, and
pursued a career as a chemist.
John did not hesitate to answer the call of
the Church to serve as a voluntary missionary to his native Switzerland,
notwithstanding the challenge for his second family to support him and
themselves. On 8 April 1890, John was ordained a Seventy by Elder Francis
M. Lyman of the Council of Twelve Apostles and thereafter left his young
family and expecting wife to serve for two years in Switzerland. Caroline
knit socks and stockings, while Katherine sold them to live on and to support
John on his mission. His daughter Tullie was born while he was on his mission.
Grandmother Zemp-Kunz came to live with the family shortly after John Kunz's
death in February 1890, making it possible for John to serve his mission.
During his mission, John met with his Swiss family and gathered information
from the family records and the Zürich city archives about his deceased
ancestors in response the Church's admonition that every member should
trace their ancestry.
After his return from Switzerland, daughter
Ruth was born and died in October 1896, which made a lasting impression
on the children, including Tullie. Shortly thereafter the family moved
to Murray, Utah, smelter town just south of Salt Lake City in the Great
Salt Lake Valley. It was here that Ethel and Evelyn were born. John
worked in the smelter to support the family. He was also a much sought
after musician. He walked or rode his bicycle through all kinds of weather
carrying his cumbersome instruments to entertain people of Salt Lake Valley
at dances.
On 29 March 1902 after an extended illness,
Caroline died while in a hospital in Provo, Utah, forty miles south of
Murray. Since Caroline's mother had married again and moved to Underwood,
Washington State, John was left alone to care for six young children. John
tried to keep the family together but finally decided it would be best
to place the children with foster parents in the community. Eva married
Frederick Rock two weeks after her mother's death. Ted went to live with
the Stevenson family to help them on their farm. Helen was taken in by
Mr. & Mrs. William Scott. Tullie was taken in by Mr. & Mrs. George
Brown, where she could help take care of their two younger children. Ethel
was taken in and raised by Cyrus and Grace Ann Boyce Neff of 1200 East
and 4500 South in the Mill Creek area, east of Murray. Evelyn was taken
care of by the Neffs and several other families. Father John felt that
the young children should not be given up for adoption. (At age 21, Ethel
was legally adopted by the Neffs so she could inherit their property.)
Even though the family was scattered around the southeast valley, everyone
kept in touch with each other and their aging father, who lived alone.
John remained true to his callings in The
Church. On 20 January 1907, President George Wooley ordained John to the
office of High Priest when he received increased responsibilities in The
Church.
Sunday, 15 September 1907 began as a typical
Sabbath day for seventy-three-year-old John Henry Akert. In the morning
he attended the service of the German-speaking congregation in in downtown
Salt Lake City. Afterwards he attended the afternoon service in the
Tabernacle, where he often sang as a member of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir.
At the conclusion of the afternoon meeting he walked home. Feeling
somewhat ill, however, he lay down to rest. That afternoon, John
Henry Akert died peacefully in his sleep.
Large Attendance of Sorrowing Friends At Last, Sad Rites
The funeral of John H. Akert was held today
at noon, in the Twelfth Ward meetinghouse, where a large attendance of
sorrowing friends , a profusion of floral tributes and local music by a
quartet signalized the service. Bishop Williams presided, the invocation
was offered by Elder R. E. Nelson, and the speakers were the bishop, and
Elders Schulthess, John Keddington, Herman Greter and R.T. Hoag, with benediction
by Harrison E. Jenkins. The interment was in the city cemetery....
[From the Obituary in the newspaper of the German-speaking community:]
...He is survived by his son John H. Akert
and by a number of younger children who are being well cared for.... The
bereaved may be assured of the deepest sympathy of their many friends.
John Henry Akert, Jr., was born 10 Dec 1865
in Aussersihl, now part of Zürich, Switzerland, to Hans Heinrich (John
Henry) Akert (1836-1907) of Aussersihl and Lina Näf (1845-1895) of
Glattfelden, Switzerland. He was the second child of this marriage,
his elder sister Lina Elizabeth, born 11 September 1864, having died from
accidental drowning 8 May 1865. His father was a liveryman in Switzerland,
but he fell into bankruptcy and decided to seek his fortunes in America.
John Sr. came to America in 1865, and his wife and son John Jr. followed
in 1866.
The family first settled in Evansville,
Indiana. However, on 16 March 1870, his father joined the U.S. Army
at St. Louis, Missouri. Within a month, his father was assigned to
the Regimental Band of the Seventh Cavalry. John Jr., his father
and his mother arrived at Taylor Barracks in Louisville, Kentucky in April
1870. He never dreamed that he would be drawn into various adventures
during the five years of his father's military service. In fact,
he never anticipated any hardships, and when they did come, as he said,
"I was never entirely concerned, never worried or showed a sign of fright.
Why should a boy at my age be concerned about the daily hardships, as long
as I didn't have to starve?"
His father first served under General Sturgis
at Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas. In 1873, not long after his father had
joined up with the 7th Cavalry in Louisville, Kentucky, General Custer
received orders from Washington to pull up stakes and transfer his entire
regiment to Fort Abraham Lincoln in the northern part of Dakota, a few
miles south of Bismarck, on the banks of the Missouri River. At that
time Bismarck, which was to become the capital of North Dakota, was nothing
more than a shanty town on the Indian frontier. John vividly remembered
the expedition of 1872-1873, relating them in his own words in his autobiographical
sketch many years later:
"The journey from Louisville to Fort Lincoln,
if I'd live a thousand years, will never fade out of my mind. Custer's
whole regiment of cavalry 500 strong embarked on a steamboat on the Ohio
river, floating to the Mississippi junction, then from there up the Mississippi
to the Missouri to Yanktown, South Dakota. I can see the gang of
darkies refueling the steamers with cord wood at various fueling stations
along the rivers. The old gang plank would sway in rhythm by the weight
of those colored boys trotting up and down with two or three sticks of
cord wood on their shoulder, all in step to a southern song.
"Disembarking at Yanktown, we were transferred
to government wagons propelled by mules, when orders were sounded to hit
the trail for Fort Lincoln, which was a strenuous 500 miles away.
Of course the wagon train couldn't be rushed, so we just moseyed along
the best we could, over prairies and rolling hills. Once we got in
a prairie fire, but quick hands saved us from it. The old trail led
us over Fort Yates and Fort Rice. When we finally reached our destination,
we were very near worn out. Besides my mother, there were a score
of other women and children, and believe me, they were pretty well fatigued
out, inasmuch as there had been Indian trouble. That was the reason
General Custer had been ordered to come up here, to settle Indian hostilities."
John Jr. heard many stories of Indian skirmishes
from his father and his father's and mother's friends and may well have
witnessed a few hostilities near his home at Fort Lincoln.
His father's enlistment ended 16 March 1875
at Fort Lincoln. The family returned to Louisville and civilian life in
April 1875. For a while, John Jr. and his parents lived in Elizabethtown.
His father, finding no satisfactory work, took his family back to Louisville,
Kentucky, where in summer 1876 they received word that on 25 June 1876,
General Custer and the entire Seventh Cavalry had died in battle on the
Little Big Horn River in Montana.
John lived together with his parents for the
last time in Louisville. While reportedly living in Louisville, John narrowly
escaped kidnapping by an Indian squaw. The Indian had laid in wait for
him as he traveled by wagon to a store for supplies.
His mother Lina, evidently dissatisfied with
the living conditions reportedly divorced his father on 25 August 1876.
In June 1877, his mother left Louisville, traveling first to Buffalo, New
York. In August 1877, she called for John to join her and to return to
Switzerland.
John, in November 1877, shortly before he
turned twelve, left New York with his mother for Europe on the Labrador
Steamer, disembarking at Le Havre, France. On 10 December 1877 John and
his mother arrived in Switzerland, where his first home was at his mother's
parents' house near Zürich. However, his mother felt the pull
of America. After six months his mother disappeared to America, and
his grandparents, unable to take care of him, left him at the mercy of
his father's sisters.
As he related this traumatic time: "Then
began my homeless days. Eventually I was taken care of by my father's sister
Dorothea [Peter (b. 1825)], who took pity on me." He remained with her
until he left to return to America in May 1883 to rejoin his father. In
the meantime, his father had reenlisted in the U.S. Army (at New York City
4 November 1878), this time joining the Fourteenth U.S. Infantry. Within
a month of this enlistment his father was once again in the Regimental
Band, and the Fourteenth Infantry was sent to the frontier of Wyoming Territory.
In early 1883, his father's regiment was transferred to Fort Douglas in
Salt Lake City, Utah Territory, so his father sent for John.
Traveling with a Mormon company including
the Arnold Shulthess family, John reached Salt Lake City on the 4th of
June 1883. He was then taken in by the Shulthess family, as there
were no facilities for a seventeen year-old boy and his father at nearby
Fort Douglas.
In Salt Lake City, both he and his father
found fellowship with the Swiss Mormons. John Sr. married Caroline
Steiner Kunz of Escholzmatt, Lucern, Switzerland, in Salt Lake City 3 April
1884.
On 7 September 1892 in the Logan LDS Temple,
John Jr. married Anna Struhs (born 5 April 1875) of Solothurn, Switzerland,
daughter of John Henry Struhs and Elizabeth Saner, and together they raised
eight children in Salt Lake City.
John's mother Lina reportedly died in New
York City in November 1895. His stepmother Caroline, following many years
of illness, died 29 March 1902 in a hospital in Provo, Utah, and the children
remaining at home were cared for by friends, as the family could not provide
and care for itself. John Sr. passed away 15 September 1907 in Murray,
Utah, leaving two young children, in addition to John Jr. and four other
children who could care for themselves.
John Jr. and Anna had the following children:
+ Arnold Herman Akert (21 June 1893-20 Jan 1981 in Flin Flon, Manitoba,
Canada, married Isabella Burns 7 September 1925 in Cordova, Alaska);
+ Mary Akert (18 November 1894-20 March 1971, married James Warren
Gilbert 19 June 1918 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple);
+ Walter John Akert (19 July 1898-25 March 1980, married Gertrude Couch
21 May 1927 in Hurley, New Mexico);
+William Henry Akert (20 Oct 1900-30 March 1973 in Reno, Nevada,
married Bluma Bergman 7 Feb 1926 in San Bernardino, California);
+ Martha Anna Akert (15 March 1902-6 January 1956, married Harry K.
Keddington 21 March 1922 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple); Ruth Akert (25 December
1907- August 1986, married Kenneth M. Gerrard 19 June 1934
in the Salt Lake LDS Temple);
+ Ethel Elizabeth Akert (7 May 1913- , married first Paul
E. Margetts 24 September 1941 (deceased), married second Toby Gorringe,
living in West Valley City, Utah 1993); and
+ John Henry Akert (23 April 1915-19 Nov 1971, married Ardella Green
16 March 1934 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple).
In 1895, five years after his father had served
a mission to Switzerland, John Jr. was also called to serve a voluntary
mission for the LDS Church in Switzerland. He departed from Salt
Lake City on 12 October 1895 in a company of twenty-nine Elders and arrived
by steamer at Liverpool, England 1 November 1895. John H. Akert was appointed
secretary to the company of Elders traveling together at the time.
His articulate and detailed report of the journey appeared in a Letter
to the Editor of the Deseret News on 15 November 1895. He returned to Salt
Lake City after about two and one-half years of service.
John became renowned as an landscape artist
and watercolorist, leaving many paintings to his family. Some of his murals
hang in ward buildings near his Salt Lake home. For fifty-one years from
1891 to 1941, he was employed by the ZCMI Department Store, primarily in
the capacity of warehouse shipping clerk. He lived in the Princeton Ward
of Salt Lake City until his death. He passed away 16 January 1947
in Salt Lake City of a heart ailment. His wife followed him in death 14
April 1957.
When I began to enjoy life in my tender years,
I very often stopped to think about one thing and another. Having
no brothers or sisters, just my parents. Playmates were as scarce
as hens teeth in my neighborhood, which was the Taylor barraks in Louisville
Kentuckey. You may wonder what I was doing there, well I will tell
you, how I came to be there, I was just in my 5th year, when Dad enlisted
in the 7th Cavalry of the U.S. Army under the command of General G.A. Custer,
the notorious Indian fighter. This soldier life, in which I was drug
along, began in April 1870 at the age of 5 years, now in this early stage
of life. I never dreamt that I would be drawn into various adventures,
during the five years of my Dads service under Gen. Custer infact I never
anticipated any hardships to come across my path, and when they did come,
I was never intirely concerned, never worried of [or] showed a sign of
fright, why should a boy at my age be concerned about the daily hardships,
as long as I didn't have to starve.
Not long after Dad was lined up in the 7th
Cavalry, in Louisville Kentucky Gen. Custer received orders to pull up
stakes, from Washington, and leave at once for Fort Lincoln in the northern
part of Dakota, a few miles south of Bismark (which now is the capital
of North Dakota, and in them days of 1872 was nothing more than a Shantytown.
Of course the Dakotas was one territory. Very frequently in my advanced
years my thoughts become centered on my experiences when I was knee high
to a grasshopper. The journey from Louisville to Fort Lincoln, if
I'd live a thousand years, would never fade out of my mind. Custers
whole reg. of cavalry 500 strong imbarked on a Steamboat on the Ohio river,
floating to the Mississippi junction, then from there up the Mississippi
to the Missouri to Yanktown, So. Dakota, I can see the gang of darkies
refueling the Steamers with Cord wood at various fueling stations along
the rivers the old gang plank would sway in rythem by the weight of those
colored boys trotting up and down with two or three sticks of cord wood
on there shoulder, all in step to a southern song.
Disimbarking at Yanktown, we were transfered
to government wagons propeled by mules, when orders were sounded to hit
the trail for Fort Lincoln, which was a strainious 500 miles, of course
the wagon train couldn't be rushed, so we just mosied along the best we
could, over prarries and rolling hills, once we got in a prarry fire, but
quick hands saved us from it. The old trail led us over Fort Yates
and Fort Rice when we finally reached our destination, very near worn out.
Besides my mother their were a score of other women and children and beleave
me they were pretty well fagued out, in as much that there had been Indian
trouble was the reason of Gen. Custer been ordered to come up here to settle
Indian hostilities.
[1940 Original wording and spelling]
DESERET EVENING NEWS
Salt Lake City, Utah, Nov. 15, 1895
From Salt Lake to Liverpool
LIVERPOOL, NOV. 1, 1895.
To the Editor:
Perhaps a few lines from this quarter of the
globe will be accepted by you, and read with interest by a great number
of your and our friends in the fair Territory of Utah. We are a company
of Elders that have left our homes and gone to the different nations of
the earth, via Liverpool, and we though a brief synopsis of our travels
in the form of a condensed report would be very acceptable by our much
loved paper, and kindly ask that you give space to the following in your
valuable columns.
There are twenty-nine of us Elders in the
company that left Salt Lake City, October 12, 1895. We traveled at
first by different roads but we all met at Chicago, where we had the opportunity
to view some of the more important buildings, such as the Masonic Temple,
twenty-one stories high, and other magnificent structures,. From there
we all traveled together to Buffalo, arriving in the morning, and as our
train for Philadelphia did not leave until evening we spent the day visiting
Niagara Falls, which of course was the sight of a lifetime for us. We took
the opportunity, by paying a toll of 15 cents, to cross the new suspension
bridge over to the Canadian side, and returning to Buffalo, we took train
for Philadelphia. We remained there from noon, Oct. 17, until Oct. 19,
during which time we took in some of the important sights, such as Wm.
Penn’s monument, Grant’s and Jefferson’s statues, and many others. While
here we caused some little newspaper comment, owing to our being in such
a large company; perhaps if we, like the deciples of old, had travelled
in twos and threes we would have escaped this notoriety.
Saturday morning, Oct. 19 at 10 a.m. the steamer
Waesland set sail from Philadelphia, but owing to shallow water we were
48 hours clearing the Delaware b, a distance of about 90 miles, having
been assisted by seven small steam tugs. We had smooth sailing until Wednesday
evening, Oct. 23, when the waves began rolling high, causing many of us
unpleasant feelings. However, by Sunday, Oct. 27th, we were all fairly
well again. As there were so many of us on board, we thought it wisdom
to meet together, and through the kindness of the chief steward, we were
given the use of a very nice room suitable for the purpose, the courtesy
being much appreciated. Here we met an hour morning and night, and bore
our testimonies; and as some of the passengers on board had expressed a
desire to attend our meetings, an invitation was extended to all, and (with
the assistance of Brother Birchell, of Nephi, who was along with us) the
first principles of the Gospel were explained, and a good time in general
was enjoyed by all. As a little band of brethren travelling together we
formed ties of friendship never to be forgotten. Our meetings on board
the vessel were brought to a close with a general testimony assembly.
We landed in Liverpool on Friday, Nov. 1st,
1895, and were transferred from the large steamer on to a smaller one,
which landed us safely at the Liverpool docks. We met there Brother John
B. Burrows from the headquarters, who escorted us up to the office. During
the day business was transacted in regard to the setting apart of the Elders
to Great Britain and receiving good instructions from Apostle A.H. Lund;
then we all departed to our different lands, our different fields of labor.
The request of the company in general is that
I give you their best regards and love, I being appointed secretary of
the journey.
JOHN H. AKERT
FAMILY HISTORY AND
FOND MEMORIES OF MY EARLY LIFE
by
Hulda Davis
[Hulda Caroline "Tullie" Akert Davis]
December 1973
My father and mother were born in Switzerland.
They came to Utah to become Mormons and live with those who believed as
they did in the Gospel of Jesus Christ. My father John Henry Akert was
born near Zürich and came to Utah as a soldier in the U.S. Army.
My mother Caroline Stadler Steiner and my grandmother [Katharine Zemp]
came from Escholzmatt, Canton Lucern in Switzerland. My grandmother's family
had converted to the Mormon Church. Father and Mother were married
in the Endowment House in Salt Lake City in 1884.
I was the sixth child. I was born in 1890
while my father was serving as a missionary in Switzerland. We lived in
very humble circumstances at that time. Grandmother lived with us and helped
care for us. Mamma had learned the art of knitting socks of wool on knitting
machines. In order to support Father on his mission and to feed the family,
she knit warm woolen socks and stockings on her two knitting machines.
Warm socks were very much in demand in our cold winters. It seems my earliest
memory is the return of Father from his mission in Switzerland.
We were a very happy humble family. We had
a loving father,a kind pretty mother and a sweet religious grandmother.
Our mother had beautiful blue eyes and dark hair, but none of us children
were blessed with blue eyes. Father had big back eyes and wore a beard
and a mustache. He was very good looking. I remember he told me that when
he was walking home in the deep snow from playing at the dances,his beard
would become covered with icicles. I told him to be sure to awaken me when
he got home so I could make sure he wasn't fooling me.
I was very much a loved child by him and by
my grandmother. The other children called me Grandma's Pet, because she
took me everywhere she went--to visit friends or to the Swiss meetings
in the Assembly Hall and in the Tabernacle. Perhaps the reason I got so
much attention was because I was unfortunate enough to have one dark brown
eye and one light brown eye! But I loved my grandmother. I always slept
with her, and I loved her feather bed and her down quilt on top.
My dear grandmother taught us well in our
childhood. She taught me to pay my tithing, which I never failed to do
-- 10 cents out of every dollar I earned. I can remember when I was about
10 years old, helping my father dig and pile up big blue potatoes in John
James potato patch. I earned forty cents a day, @2.40 a week. On Saturday
when I was paid I was so thrilled to be able to pay tithing that I ran
two blocks to Brother Richardson's house to pay him the twenty five cents.
Grandmother also taught us to pray night and morning and whenever we were
troubled about anything. She told us that prayer moves mountains and that
God moves in mysterious ways, his wonders to perform. My prayers have certainly
been answered many times when I was deserving. When our family was all
together, we had family prayer each morning before breakfast and each night
after dinner, and each evening Grandmother would read to us. After dinner
Grandmother would lay out her big picture bible on our long table and tell
us a story. Then Ruben and I would place the chairs in a half circle for
evening prayers. These were our fondest childhood memories.
I can remember when we lived near the Fisher
Brewery on Second South near ninth West. I was about six years old. I remember
that our baby sister Ruth died there. One night Grandmother awakened us
five children and told us to come to see the baby in her cradle. She told
us that the baby was going to Heaven. Several days later, in our big front
room we held her funeral. During the funeral my half brother John Akert
lifted me up to see her in the casket. She looked like a little doll dressed
in white. Pinned on her little dress was a little spray of lilies of the
valley. Ever since I have been fond of those dainty flowers. After the
ceremony, the little casket was placed on Mamma's and Papa's lap in a horse-drawn
carriage. I sat in the middle as we drove to the Salt Lake City Cemetery.
Now there was only my half brother John, my oldest sister Eva, Sarah, Ruben
and myself. All of our other brothers and sisters were buried in the Salt
Lake City Cemetery: Adam, Benjamin, Jared, Esther and Ruth.
Soon after Ruth's death we moved to
Murray, a thriving little town about twenty miles south of Salt Lake City.
Father found work there in the smelter. We lived in several different places
in Murray. One place was on Germania Street, a pleasant street lined with
tall poplar trees leading toward the smelter. Now, more than fifty years
later the street has been cut off by the slag dump.
Slag dumping was a beautiful sight to watch.
We would always take our friends and visitors around the side of the house
to see this beautiful sight. The red molten slag would light up the whole
sky and the neighborhood for several minutes as it was dumped.
Ours was a big family to cook and sew and
care for. But we were all taught to scrub and clean and work hard to do
our part. Across the street from our house was an apple orchard. My brother
Ruben and I would pick up apples from the ground and take them home for
Grandmother to peal and slice for drying and preserving. We also helped
prepare other preserves including pears, stoned plums and prunes. We would
dry them by placing them in the hot sun on boards covered with mosquito
bar material. If we had nothing better to do, we would shoo of the flies
with a stick which had strips of paper tied on the end.
We had a good cow Nellie, which kept us in
good milk and butter. Mother milked Nellie, and while she did I shooed
away the flies with the fly stick. Otherwise Nellie would swish her tail
and kick while mother milked. Mother curried her and kept her clean and
pretty. One day we had to sell Nellie. But the next day Nellie was back,
standing at the barn door. So we decided to keep her after all. We also
had several pretty dogs, chickens and a big yard to play in. We had
a big swing strung between two big poplar trees in the front year. In the
back year we had a teeter totter and a whirley gig. Father wanted us to
stay home to play in out own yard, so he made us all these things to enjoy
at home.
When I was eight years old I was baptized,
like Sarah and Ruben, in the cold waters of the Cottonwood River. It was
not hard to remember such an occasion.
I liked school and got as far as the eighth
grade. We attended school--and Sunday School--in our old school house west
of the railroad tracks, about two or three miles away. The school children
all walked a great distance to school, but most people enjoyed walking
just about anywhere. The other girls didn't get much schooling, much to
their regret today. There was always something else to do, such as helping
out on Wash Day. It was easy to get excused from school. All you needed
to do was to say that you felt sick.
We had no electricity or any appliances or
heating. When it was dark we either carried lit candles or coal oil lamps.
For safety, we only used lanterns in the barn, where we kept and fed our
cow and horse. Our heat came from a coal stove in the kitchen. Besides
using it for cooking, we dressed near it and stood close to it to get warm.
We made toast by removing one of the four stove plates and holding the
bread near the hot coals until the bread was brown. Sometimes our hands
and fingers got toasted too! We carried wash water from a creek which ran
behind our house. In order to wash the laundry, Grandmother heated the
water in a big ten-gallon wash boiler on the stove. Then she scrubbed the
clothes on a wash board in a large basin of soapy water. Stoves were later
improved to have built-in boilers. However, they had to be kept filled
with water all the time. Our drinking water came from a flowing well about
a quarter mile form the house. We would fetch one or two buckets full at
a time. The bucket was placed on a stand or a big table in the kitchen.
To drink we shared a big dipper or a family drinking cup. At school there
was a pump, so if we pumped hard enough we could get a cup of water.
Plumbing was also primitive. Our toilets were
usually two-hole out houses, but we kept it clean. Ruben and I used
to scrub the out house with soap and water until it was a clean and as
fresh as a piece of white paper. When the hole was full, Papa would dig
a new hole and cover up the old one and move the old out house.
Things in those days were not very sanitary
compared to more modern times. Grocery stores did not package the food
and there were flies and diseases everywhere. Some families were wiped
out in a week by flu or typhoid. We had few medicines or laxatives other
than syrup of figs, castor oil and saltz, and they were all terrible.
In those days there was a street car pulled
by two donkeys. I hardly remember where it started or where it went. Most
people walked miles and miles in those days. I remember that Papa walked
from Murray to Salt Lake City to work. We had bicycles in those days, too.
Only the more prosperous people had a horse and buggy.
Father was an accomplished musician. He played
almost every kind of wind instrument, as well as the violin and the bass
fiddle. He used to walk miles to play his fiddle or violin for dances in
the Church meetinghouses in Taylorsville, Sandy and Cottonwood. Father
loved music.
I remember when Mamma was expecting Ethel.
There were no doctors to deliver children in those days. I always wondered
when the midwife would bring the baby and deliver it. When she drove up
in her buggy with her pretty horse and carrying her satchel, I would run
out to ask her if she had the baby in the satchel. She said no, but that
she might have it the next time she came. One day, after the midwife left,
Grandma called me into Mamma's bedroom, and there was Mamma in bed with
Ethel in her arms.
About eighteen months later, the midwife came
to visit again. She drove up in the same horse and buggy, and again I asked
her if she was going to bring another baby in her satchel. While she was
with Mamma, Eva and I took her horse and buggy for a ride though the streets
of Murray. Eva was sixteen years old and sort of wild. She loved horses
and fun and excitement. She often dressed up in a long skirt and her fashionable
black duffy to ride through town. She used to ride bare back, side saddle,
any way she could. It didn't matter. She loved to ride horses. After we
had ridden through Murray, we returned home to find the midwife standing
in the door, awaiting our return. She had just delivered Evelyn.
When Evelyn our baby sister was about four
years old, Mamma died. She was forty-two years old and had been ill for
a long time. She had had trouble with varicose veins for many years. We
were left without a mother or grandmother. Grandmother had remarried and
moved to Underwood, Washington. Father and we children tried to keep house
and live together without Mamma, but it was very difficult to take her
place.
We had many very nice friends. The Stevenson
family offered to take in Ruben, who could help them on their farm. Mr.
& Mrs. George Brown invited me to live with them so I could care for
their two small children. Ethel was taken in by Mr. & Mrs. Cyrus Neff
of Mill Creek. Evelyn lived in several different homes because Father did
not want to let her out for adoption. sarah moved to town to work for Mr.
& Mrs. Wm. Scott, who were very nice people. Right after Mamma's death,
Eva got married. Although we were all scattered we managed to stay close
and keep in touch.
In 1907, five years after Mamma's death, Papa
died. We were all taken care of by friends until we were old enough to
care for our selves. Ethel was adopted by the Neffs. I moved to Salt Lake
to work. Then I went to McGill, Nevada to nurse my eldest sister Eva after
her daughter Virginia was born in 1909.
I remained in McGill, where I found work in
the Staff, a very exclusive boarding house where only the office force
of the McGill Smelter Company ate. As a waitress I served Mr. Guggenheim
and Mr. Jacklin, the mine owners, where their private train brought them
to town to look over their many mines.
My Sweet Heart Days were spent in McGill. Our little
Ward was well supported by people of all faiths. Bishop Little, with much
support, guided the construction of a small church building. I also taught
a class in Sunday School. I also loved to play ball. There were two women;s
ball teams in town, upper town site and lower town site. I played shortstop.
Even so I was a beautiful young girl who had many proposal and many suitors.
Among the mining staff, I met the man I wanted to marry: John Andrew Davis.
Jack had dark hair and black eyes. He was full of life, and we both
loved to dance. We certainly did our share while we were in Nevada. The
dances were held in a lovely new school house. Only the nicest people in
town attended these dances. There was no drinking or rowdiness. We enjoyed
the finest music in town, including a fine old violin. Jack and I certainly
enjoyed those lovely days in Nevada... .
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....December 28, 1973: Now I am a widow, eighty-three years old today. I have buried my husband Jack and my two lovely sons. Caroline my daughter is now living with me. She is fifty-two now, and she is also a widow. Caroline is a little crippled and walks with a cane. But she is a beautiful daughter that I am trying to bring back to health. Life has been very good to me.
Hulda Davis
[Tullie Davis survived her daughter Caroline by three years, passing away 18 November 1988 in her ninety-eighth year.]
ETHEL OLGA AKERT
NEFF SMITH MIDGLEY
1897-1990
by
Ethel S. Midgley
Mary Grace Smith Allen Wade
and
Kenneth R. Allen
This is the life of Ethel Olga Akert, the daughter
of humble Swiss immigrant converts to the Mormon Church, John Henry Akert
(1836-1907) and Caroline Stadler Steiner Kunz (1860-1902), who was adopted
by Mormon Pioneer foster parents, Cyrus Neff and Grace Ann Boyce, and who
was companion for eternity of Edwin Woodruff Smith (1897-1960) and companion
for time of Thomas Cordon Midgley (1899-1985). She was matriarch of a family
of over one hundred and sixty descendants. Her life bridged two centuries,
ten decades and eight generations. She knew frontier pioneers and
astronauts, her grandparents and her great-great grandchildren.
Ethel was born Thanksgiving Day, November
30, 1897, in Murray, Salt Lake County, Utah, the tenth of eleven children
of John Henry and Caroline Akert. Caroline, her mother Katharina (Catherine)
Zemp and twin brother Peter Zemp, had converted to the Mormon Church in
the Emmenthal Branch of the Church in Switzerland and emigrated in the
late 1870's to join the gathering community of Swiss Saints in the Salt
Lake Valley. Grandma Catherine was a member of the Akert household until
shortly before Caroline's death in 1902. Ethel was 4-1/2 and younger sister
Evelyn was just 3 when their mother died. Ethel's only memory of
her mother was sitting on her mother's sickbed as her mother fed her bits
of sugar.
The older children, Eva, Sarah (or Helen),
Ruben (or Ted), and Hulda (or Tullie) could not help their father enough
to keep the family together following their mother's death. Their father's
meager income as a worker at the Murray smelter and as a musician was not
enough to hire help. So the older children were placed with friends
in and near Murray, where they worked for room and board. Ethel was the
most fortunate of all the children. At the age of six, she and Evelyn were
taken in by a childless Rhoda Gaffain and then a few months later by Rhoda's
mother's half sister, Grace Ann Boyce and her husband Cyrus Neff of the
Mill Creek area east of Murray. The Neff's had a modest farm with a home
at 1148 East 45th South in Mill Creek. Ethel, though homesick for her own
family, prospered from the love in the Neff's home until adulthood. Her
father visited as often as he could until his death one peaceful Sunday
afternoon, 15 September 1907.
The Neff home was a child's delight. Petite,
blue-eyed Ethel (who as an adult was about 4'10" tall) played often with
Mother Neff's sister's children, Erma and Elva Miller, who lived across
the street. An old granary behind the Neff home became their play house.
It was a time of fun and dreams. Ethel recalled those times:
Erma always wanted me to go to the dances
with her--so I'd play paper dolls with Elva and go to the dance with Erma
and her beaus until I got beaus of my own. I loved dancing and had lots
of dates. Mother and Father Neff never objected to my social life. They
always trusted me and I loved them for it. I always had lovely clothes
and everyone said I looked like a doll, but I never was haughty or conceited.
Erma introduced me to her husband's
older brother and I went with him for months. He wanted me to marry him,
but I was going to Granite High School. I had met Ed Smith [Edwin Woodruff
Smith 2 Mar 1897-7 Nov 1960), a star basketball and football player, the
handsomest boy in school. Although he was going with another girl, Lyle
Smith, I wanted to get to know him. One day as I was coming from Liberty
Park with the horse and surrey I stopped at the Albert Smith's Store [his
father was the owner and a prominent butcher] at 17th South State Street
to say hello. He couldn't take time to talk to me. That night he came out
in his brother George's Ford and stayed for a nice visit. From then on
I was deeply in love. I mean Real Love. He invited me to his home, and
the Smiths treated me nice. I knew his sister Florence at high school and
loved her also. They were all wonderful, gracious people. Mother Smith
[Mary Ann Storton] was a very quiet, deep. person, and I know she was wondering
about my parentage and background, but she soon accepted me.
Our courtship was about 9 months. Ed
went off to U.S.A.C. [now Utah State University, Logan, Utah] to study.
During one visit home we had a bad horse and buggy car accident. It wrecked
Grandpa Smith's buggy and lamed me for years. At Father Neff's urging I
dropped out of high school, as there was no future for educated girls.
He then sent me to a special sewing school to help me become a good homemaker.
That fall Ed joined the Navy. While waiting for his assignment he took
a course in wireless telegraphy with my help. In July of 1918 he got his
call to San Francisco. He was soon recognized as the best in telegraphy,
and got advanced fast. Our letters were every-day reading. I was very lonely,
but joined the other girls in Red Cross work for the boys "over there."
Of course this was World War I, a terrible time.
About the 25th of September I answered
the phone. It was Ed, which startled me. He told me he was coming home
to marry me, as he couldn't get a furlough unless it was to get married.
Mother Neff was shocked, but I was happy--so everything started with a
bang. What fun and excitement for everyone--wedding arrangements, dresses,
plans of every kind. Mother Neff thought that it would be best to have
a civil marriage rather than Temple as times were so uncertain, but I said,
'No.' Invitations were phoned. Helen and Tullie came out to help cook.
I was the only one that knew where things were, so [2 Oct 1918, following
a ceremony in the Salt Lake Temple] even while I stood in line with Ed
[in the parlor of the Neff home] I was asked where things were--it was
really funny. It was a ball. We left everyone there to go to the train
for our honeymoon to San Francisco, not knowing what would be the circumstances.
When we left there I kissed Mother and Father and thanked them and everyone
for everything, and left.
On our way down to San Francisco the
train had a broken wheel and was delayed for a day. Ed had to call and
report the delay, and we had no time to spare, but all was well. We went
to the home of his father's English cousin, "Aunt" Annie Meachin and her
daughter Ida Meachin. We stayed one night. Then Ed had to leave me to get
on a ship. How sad I was, as I'd never travelled before, and I was in tears.
But Laura, George Smith's wife, took me downtown to comfort me a little.
When we returned to George's home, who should come to the door but Ed.
I could hardly believe it, but I know the Lord was still blessing me and
us. The flu [the 1918-19 influenza epidemic] was so bad that the Navy wouldn't
let anyone in or out. As Ed had been gone almost 10 days they wouldn't
let him on ship. He reported to a naval school each morning, but was free
for almost a month. So we made Golden Gate Park [in San Francisco] our
honeymoon haven, staying out in the open air as much as possible as people
were dying of the flu by the thousands down there--including, as we learned
later, many in the hotel where we were staying.
Ed got another furlough to bring me
home. We arrived the day before Thanksgiving [Wednesday, November 27, 1918].
Soon there was another sad parting, so I stayed with Father and Mother
Neff. By the time he had made a trip to Eugene, Oregon in a leaky mine
tender [?-Eugene is inland] and another to Hawaii for a month, the war
was over. The Navy gave Ed a special early release so he could go home
to work on the farm, as there was a big shortage of farm help. Father Neff
wanted him to come and take over his farm, but it was too late in the season,
so we went up to help [his brother-in-law] Hugh Erekson in Kamas [east
in Heber Valley in the Wasatch Mountains]. We lived in a tent, finally
buying a table and chairs and a bed.
It was time to settle down, so we came
back to Father Neff's farm and fixed up the granary where I had played
as a child. It was two rooms, a very cute little place. We lived
there a year. Vivian was born there, the 30th of April 1920. Father and
Mother Neff went down to Long Beach for the winter and we took over the
big house. Mildred Boyce stayed with us and went to school from there.
On January 26, 1922, in the worst snowstorm I can remember, Mary Grace
was born in the bed and room I'd slept in for 15 years. Ed had gone all
the way to Butlerville through the blizzard in a buggy to fetch a nurse.
When he saw the baby his face was as long as a donkey's, as he wanted a
boy. It took a few years, but I got all the boys he wanted. In fact I filled
up the back yard with boys trying to get another girl.
While we were here I had a very bad
case of the flu. When Mary Grace was a year old I got diphtheria at a Stake
Conference at the old Granite Stake Tabernacle on 33rd South. Several other
people did also, which made everyone very upset.
We then bought the Boam farm at 4644
South 13th East from Father Neff and moved our family into the granary
behind it after fixing it up to make it livable. [It later became known
as the home at 1281 East 4650 South.] We were waiting for the tenants,
a Greek family, to move out of the main house. Lloyd was born there in
the granary on 25th of September 1923. When the tenants moved, we fixed
up the old home as best we could and moved in. The rest of the family was
born while we lived in this house. While we were still living in the granary,
Ed had a chance to travel with the Naval Reserve to Valparaiso, Chile.
He didn't have to go, but it was a good experience that he did.
The old Boam home was an old adobe home with
lots of problems. Ed was constantly remodeling it to hold our growing family.
Finally, in 1949 we built my dream home, a big red brick house right next
door to the south [4650 South 13th East]. Ed and the boys [including Mary
Grace's husband Reed Allen] also built us a cabin up Big Cottonwood Canyon,
where we loved to go. We also helped the children remodel the granary,
which was home to Mary Grace and Reed for a while [before they moved to
Seattle in 1957] and now Albert and his family. Ed and I lived in
the brick house until after his bad fall off the roof. Taking care
of the house got to be too much, so in about 1958 we moved to 315 Utopia
Avenue in South Salt Lake.
After Ed's death in 1960 [from heart
failure] I wanted to move back to the old neighborhood. So my youngest
son David built me a little house west of the old granary on the new street
[4650 South] where the little subdivision is around the pond. I lived there
until after I married an old friend from school days, widower Thomas Cordon
Midgley who had live many years in Ogden. We were married in the Salt Lake
Temple "for Time" on November 22, 1963, the day President John F. Kennedy
was shot. I finally bought back the old house on 13th East, which
had gone to pot, and Cord and I fixed it al up for us to live in. I sold
the new house to Albert, and Cord and I found a little home in Washington,
Utah, near Cord's brother George Midgley in St. George. We lived there
for a time and then had a home built for us by David on the lot next door,
where we now spend most of our time when we are not in Salt Lake. Cord
especially likes it there because we have such a nice big garden and lots
of places to go fishing. Still we are never too busy to have visitor, and
we like to get out to family get-togethers whenever we can. Life has been
pretty good to us. We have all worked hard to raise a good family, and
we've enjoyed life to the fullest.
Ethel saw this life from the pioneer way to
the wonders of today. She made soap over a fire in a copper vat in the
back yard, cooked on a wood stove and got light from a coal oil lamp. She
flew on jet planes saw Europe and England, the lands of her ancestors and
of Ed's ancestors. She also touched the lives of many.
Many things about Ethel endeared her to all
who were associated with her. One of her attributes was her outstanding
leadership coupled with enthusiasm and endless ideas and untiring service.
She will never be forgotten by neighbors, friends and relatives who joined
in the numerous gatherings and parties such as the corn and watermelon
busts, the hayrides and the sleighrides, the Fourth of July parades, the
13th East Sewing Club and the Study Group she spearheaded.
The PTA at Lincoln School received a jolt
of enthusiasm and increased productivity and activity when she joined their
ranks, serving as Chair of the School Lunch Program, Vice President and
President. One night, she "saved the day" when the lights went off during
a banquet. She lit up the hall by shining a flashlight on the ceiling.
She always took an active part in the Church
when her health would permit. Even when she wasn't well enough to hold
a position, she would take all the children to Sunday School every Sunday
morning and Sacrament Meeting every Sunday afternoon, typically at the
Winder Ward Meetinghouse, near 45th South on Highland Drive. And if the
children were not there, they were really missed, because they would take
up almost an entire row. From the very beginning, she helped with Religion
class. During the years when the winter weather was so severe and transportation
was not available to all the children in the neighborhood, she arranged
to hold a home Primary meeting during the week, so the children would not
be deprived of their spiritual training. During World War Ii, she served
as a Counselor to Stella Boles in the Young Women's Mutual Improvement
Association. She was also always active in the women's Relief Society,
holding various positions, form Ward and Stake Magazine Representative
to Counselor to the Stake Relief Society President.
Unselfish, thoughtful and sympathetic to the
needs of others, she spent many hours taking in food, grown in her own
garden or baked in her oven; caring for children for days at a time; or
just giving an ear to a burdened heart. Ethel helped neighbors, relatives,
and even strangers who came to the door. She even gave work to strangers
to help them, and sometimes they returned her kindness by stealing from
her, such as the man who stole the piggy banks and the girl who stole her
diamond ring. But that did not stop her from helping others. When old "Uncle"
Ben Eldridge following his retirement as state agriculture agent at Utah
State Agricultural College, needed a place to live, she fixed up the little
house next door for him and did all she could to make his life pleasant
and comfortable. He spent many hours sitting in the kitchen watching her
busily preparing meals or ironing. She would always invite him to dinner
or send something home with him. Her kindness was rewarded when Uncle Ben
gave her some of his furniture, including a chair from Brigham Young, a
roll-top desk, an English sideboard and a grand dining table. Two of her
nineteenth century chairs inherited from the Neffs and Uncle Ben's rolltop
desk, fully restored, are in the California home of her grandson, Kenneth
Allen [1994]. Uncle Ben's beautiful sideboard is in the home of Albert
Neff Smith at 1281 East 4650 South on the family property in the Mill Creek
area (Salt Lake City).
One of the challenges of her life was caring
for her son Stanley, who was born 3 August 1925 with Down's Syndrome. A
sweet, gentle child, he lived at home until his mother could no longer
care for him. He attended the State School in American Fork, Utah County
and as an adult he lived in a group home, where he was visited often by
the family. Not expected to live a long life, Stanley passed away at age
54, 9 June 1980, just two months following the death of his brother-in-law
Reed Allen.
Her love for beauty did not end with a beautiful
garden, such as she and Cord grew at their home in Washington City. Like
her half brother John, she developed her artistic talent with a paint brush
and palette. She preserved scenery on canvas and watercolor paper for family
and friends to treasure for life and down from generation to generation.
When she could not find or afford birthday cards for her many grandchildren,
she was known to paint water color postcards and small oils on those special
occasions. Her work has won many ribbons at shows throughout the State
of Utah. She also created many other works of art with her hands, such
as embroidery, quilts, needlepoint, crocheted articles and even baby bonnets.
Although she seldom admitted to being able
to play the piano, she brought warmth into the hears and home with the
melodic notes from the old upright piano she played as a child. Many a
Sunday she awoke the children with the sound of beautiful church hymns
that set the referent mood for the entire day.
In addition to her other hobbies, fishing
was something she always enjoyed, so long as someone else baited the hook
for her. She took fishing trips to Fish Lake and other places with Ed,
and knew all the good streams of southern Utah with Cord.
Genealogy was quite a concern to her. She
had a strong desire to trace her ancestry and spent much time and money
in the worthy pursuit. She always looked forward to the twice yearly Smith
family reunions and the monthly luncheon get-togethers with her sisters
and half-nieces.
Ethel lived her last years as a widow in a
small cottage down the road west of the home of her son Robert and daughter-in-law
Carol in Centerville, Utah, where she could be close to part of her family.
Her daughter Vivian Stoddart passed away 6 July 1985 following a long bout
with Lou Gehrig's disease. Cord passed away quietly the afternoon of Thanksgiving
Day 28 November 1985 at Bob's and Carol's home, following Thanksgiving
dinner, when his heart simply stopped. Ethel passed away following
Sunday dinner following a brief bout of weakness 28 October 1990, also
while in Bob and Carol's home. Lucid and physically able to the very end,
she was one month short of her ninety-third birthday.
Ethel summed up much of her life in a poem
written to her husband Ed for his 59th birthday, March 2, 1956:
____________
OUR OWN
When time is passing so fast My Dear
And burdens are getting lighter to bear,
And our path down life's way is paved with cheer
What can we look back on and call our own
If it isn't our children and our well-loved home?
When Vivian was the world's sweet black-haired doll
And for her we would have given our all
Mary Grace came along and her sister and we
Thought our angel had come with us to be.
Then their Daddy had fear of not having a boy
So when Lloyd came along he was his pride and joy.
We tried, oh how we tried, but nothing could help
To make our little Stanley as we hoped he would be.
Now we know he had accomplished before he came from heaven more than
we.
An image of Dad's playmate and brother who at six passed through the
Veil,
Raymond, a darling babe, came with a welcome that never failed.
We mark the passing of your grandparents dear
By the birth of our sweet little John who was always full of cheer.
Bob as a nickname so much answered his like
As a babe he looked like Mary Grace--a cute little tyke.
With the world's depression and scarlet fever in a swirl,
All would have been fine if the next were a girl.
A boy came along and his grandfather we could see
And Albert never a disappointment could be.
A girl couldn't be sweeter, a boy never better
So he made us all happy and pleased--all right to the letter.
Time running out and a girl we still hoped for
But the Lord knew best and our seventh boy
My darling David was brought with joy.
What fun and rejoicing as a family we've had
Enjoying the good and enduring the bad.
Each child had his place; we played and worked as a group
Lunches on the lawn and down to the orchard we'd troop.
Then there were days when all the eggs would mysteriously leave the
old chicken coop.
Well Daddy dear, we now sit at the table alone
We couldn't imagine this when they were all home.
Now husbands and wives and grandchildren they bring,
It makes us more happy than if it were Spring.
We'll go on living and loving them all
Until we answer our last final call.
I love you.
Mom